Parental Guidance Tip: Keep Gifts in Perspective

Observe the Holiday by Honoring Household Rules

Sometimes it feels good to hear, "You shouldn't have", after a gift you gave just got unwrapped. Other times, you get that death stare that says unequivocally, "You REALLY shouldn't have." Even when you mean well, some of your presents might be viewed as tactless or even tasteless by friends, family and co-workers as well. As the holiday hoopla rushes in, it's best to pause and consider the boundaries some people set up around gift-giving. Cost. Age-appropriateness. Moral standards. And known personal preferences all can and should play into your decision. This brings us around to suggestion you give a listen to the "Passport to Parenting" online radio show beaming out of Portland. Hostesses Ann DeWitt and Kim DeMarchi apply their experience as family counselors and educators to spry conversations about the pleasures and pitfalls involved with raising kids. They recently aired an episode related to wise gift-giving that worth a listen.